How To: Oral Sex For Males and Females

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Oral Sex: Male and Female Perspectives

Giving Oral Sex: For Men.

When thinking about sex, guys tend to want to 'get it on' while women tend to want a more romantic and sensual time with their partner. Most men look past this very important part of making your woman want to stay with you, enjoy sex with you and want to have sex more than you do; Oral Sex. Oral sex is the key to a woman's heart in my eyes. If you really know how to go down on your woman, she will do various things, including: going down on you (this is a plus for the guys), enjoy sex and want it more often, and brag to her friends (this is also good for the guys in case you two ever split, then all her friends know you can give oral very well). When giving oral sex to a woman, there are a few do's and don'ts that you must abide by in order to give your woman the time of her life.

Remember, when starting oral sex with your partner, take your time. The last thing that your partner is going to want is someone who just 'dives right in' so to speak. Build up her anticipation for what lies ahead. You will notice, when going slower at first and then gently picking up the pace, she will get more tense, start moaning more, and her pussy will become very wet. This is when you know you are doing it right guys. Patience is of virtue, and you will be very happy with the outcome, along with your partner.

A tip on how to give your woman great oral sex is to play with her anal after a while of licking her pussy. Do not tell her you are going to do this, just do it. You will be surprised how many women will LOVE the feeling it gives them, but remember to not just ram your finger in. Slowly rub your fingers around her wet pussy, and bring some of those juices around to her anal, and gradually rub your fingers around in a circle. Eventually, you will be able to slide a small amount of your finger into her anal, but be careful to listen to her, as she might be giving you signs that it just isn't working. Some women will just not like this, but the majority will, even if they tell you they never have done it or would ever do it. Surprise them, try it, and watch how horny they get.

Another tip on eating pussy is to make sure you rub her body while you are eating. Most men think that since they have their tongue moving, the women are just extremely happy. This is not true. You must make your partner feel like she is on top of the world, and only eating her pussy is not going to make her feel like that. Soothingly rub your partner's thighs and move your hands up around her hips. Occasionally move your hands up over her stomach and massage her breasts. She will feel more relaxed with your hands on her body, and will feel more intimate, which in turn, will make her get more into the mood and want to explore more things with you.

You need to also remember that when you are performing oral sex on a woman, working with your fingers is also a plus in her book. This goes along with the last tip, as you should not just focus on one thing only, but make her senses go crazy in multiple ways. When using your fingers during oral sex, do not make your fingers the main focus. Still move your tongue, and position it in different areas (not just the clit, not just the hole, and not around the walls).

By this time, your partner will be close to climax. This is when you really need to get into it, and start to push your tongue a little harder on her clit, and rub her body with one hand, and pussy or anal with the other. There is two ways to finish the job; you can keep on licking until she orgasm's in your mouth which is a great feeling, or you could have her to the point where she's begging for you to have sex with her, in which case, you better do it!

Giving Oral Sex: For Women.

            O.K. Women, for those of you who have never given a man oral sex, let me be the one to teach you. For those of you, who have given oral sex, let me educate you on how to make your man explode. A lot of women feel apprehensive to give oral to their partner and some may even feel they aren't doing it right, but trust me, if you follow these simple steps, you wont go wrong. In my experience from talking with other women there are three main factors in giving a good blow job. In this article I will break these three steps down. Step number one is touch, step number 2 is taste and step number three is how to make him erupt.

            I will now explain step number 1 which is touch. Never over do it; tease your man, but do not tease to the point he becomes irritated. Start by slowly kissing the head of the penis, then gradually stroke the penis with a firm grip until her is fully erect. Once the penis is hard, lick the palm of your hand and stroke him up and down very slow, and speed up. Let him feel the juice on your hand as your fingers grip around his dick. This lets him know he is about to feel something he has never experienced before.

            Now we move on to my personal favorite, which I like to call "the taste test". While still stroking him up and down, take the tip of your tongue and twirl it around the head of the penis. Take the head of his dick and slip it into your mouth and twirl your tongue around the head while in your mouth. Now you want to take the whole thing in your mouth by starting slowly down the shaft. Don't be afraid to get his dick nice and wet, this will feel really good to him. Take his dick in your hand and lick the sides of his dick while making your tongue flicker all up and down his shaft. Don't forget his balls though. Gently massage them while licking his dick. Next, open your mouth wide, go up and down, slow down and speed up. While doing this motion, don't be afraid to throw in some of the previous tongue tricks. In fact, twirl your tongue around while sucking and jacking him off. Trust me, by this time his body will be trembling.

            This brings me to the last part: Eruption. By now, your man has been ready to "feel the promised land" and its time to bring him home. Don't be scared, you've already had a sample of how he tastes, and now it is time to taste your man as much as you can. This is the best way, in mine and millions of men's opinions, to end your oral sex with your partner. So, you've got him shaky, and he's about to cum, so this is what you do: Deep Throat that dick and let him know you want to taste everything he has to offer. Hold his balls and do not stop sucking his dick, keep going up and down on it, even when he is cumming.

            Oral sex is an amazing part of sex and in my opinion brings you closer to the person than intercourse, so you don't have to be afraid. Get ready to cum all night, because as long as you listen to me, everything with be excellent with your sex lives. If you can get a man and women together who both know how to give/receive oral sex, then most of the time, you don't even need intercourse to feel like you had "sex". Oral sex, if done right, will make the difference in a great sex life, and a boring sex life. You make the call on which type of sex life you would like to have.